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		<title>Comment on The power of prayer by Searching for the Light</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Apr 2013 20:48:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&lt;p&gt;Reblogged this on &lt;a href=&quot;http://choccat.wordpress.com/2013/04/26/the-power-of-prayer-2/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Searching for the light.&lt;/a&gt; and commented: &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The power of prayer - one I thought was worth a re-posting, read to end of post to find out why!&lt;/p&gt;]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Reblogged this on <a href="http://choccat.wordpress.com/2013/04/26/the-power-of-prayer-2/" rel="nofollow">Searching for the light.</a> and commented: </p>
<p>The power of prayer &#8211; one I thought was worth a re-posting, read to end of post to find out why!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Digging my heels in&#8230; by A success &#8211; of sorts&#8230; &#124; Searching for the light.</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[A success &#8211; of sorts&#8230; &#124; Searching for the light.]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Apr 2013 20:34:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Not quite right&#8230; by quirkybooks</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Mar 2013 20:55:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Okay. Now I understand. If that&#039;s what it asks for, then it does sound like you are doing a great job. Thanks for explaining the situation. The best advice I could give you would be to volunteer or get work experience at the school or another one. As it seems you need the experience and connections to get an interview for the job. I presume you already have a up-to-date teaching qualification and depending on what age you are teaching, a CRB check? I like your positivity and awareness of the &#039;game.&#039; I am sure you will stand a very good chance of getting work in the future, if you keep being that determined to succeed. I wish you much success with the job situation and your poetry.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Okay. Now I understand. If that&#8217;s what it asks for, then it does sound like you are doing a great job. Thanks for explaining the situation. The best advice I could give you would be to volunteer or get work experience at the school or another one. As it seems you need the experience and connections to get an interview for the job. I presume you already have a up-to-date teaching qualification and depending on what age you are teaching, a CRB check? I like your positivity and awareness of the &#8216;game.&#8217; I am sure you will stand a very good chance of getting work in the future, if you keep being that determined to succeed. I wish you much success with the job situation and your poetry.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Not quite right&#8230; by Searching for the Light</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Searching for the Light]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Mar 2013 15:00:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi,
Thank you for popping by and for commenting.

Also thank you for your advice re job applications. The jobs I am applying for are schools related jobs, most don&#039;t accept CVs but have a standard application form with space for your personal statement, where they ask to you write between 1 and 2 pages of A4 how you would fit the job referencing the job description and person specification. I think applications for schools are different than for other jobs as for legal reasons need to have certain information about you as it is a protection issue. I have a couple of acquaintances who are headteachers and they have both looked over my personal statement and given very positive feedback.   

Part of the problem I have is that there a large number of applications for each job and many of the people who apply will already be known to the school, e.g. parents looking for part time work or have other connections with the school such as children who attended but have now left or they may have volunteered at the school. School communities are necessarily quite close knit so unless the head and/or governors believe you will be a good fit then they are more likely to interview people with links to the school or local community. I understand this so although it is frustrating to not receive interview requests I know how it works and do believe that the right job is out there somewhere, it just hasn&#039;t found me yet. :)

With regard to my writing, because most of what I write is poetry I feel I need to be accepted as a poet first before I can publish work, though I do have a website with a limited amount of work on it and have pieces published on a couple of other websites, and the best way to be recognised is to get your work into magazines or anthologies by winning or being shortlisted in competitions. Again, I will keep trying, some day it will happen.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi,<br />
Thank you for popping by and for commenting.</p>
<p>Also thank you for your advice re job applications. The jobs I am applying for are schools related jobs, most don&#8217;t accept CVs but have a standard application form with space for your personal statement, where they ask to you write between 1 and 2 pages of A4 how you would fit the job referencing the job description and person specification. I think applications for schools are different than for other jobs as for legal reasons need to have certain information about you as it is a protection issue. I have a couple of acquaintances who are headteachers and they have both looked over my personal statement and given very positive feedback.   </p>
<p>Part of the problem I have is that there a large number of applications for each job and many of the people who apply will already be known to the school, e.g. parents looking for part time work or have other connections with the school such as children who attended but have now left or they may have volunteered at the school. School communities are necessarily quite close knit so unless the head and/or governors believe you will be a good fit then they are more likely to interview people with links to the school or local community. I understand this so although it is frustrating to not receive interview requests I know how it works and do believe that the right job is out there somewhere, it just hasn&#8217;t found me yet. <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>With regard to my writing, because most of what I write is poetry I feel I need to be accepted as a poet first before I can publish work, though I do have a website with a limited amount of work on it and have pieces published on a couple of other websites, and the best way to be recognised is to get your work into magazines or anthologies by winning or being shortlisted in competitions. Again, I will keep trying, some day it will happen.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Not quite right&#8230; by quirkybooks</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Mar 2013 22:11:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sorry to hear you are having so many problems. I believe in you. Just to let you know that I worked in management for over 7 years and I recruited staff as part of my management roles. I have a blog to help people who are redundant to get back into work http://www.beatredundancyblues.wordpress.com and I am launching a website soon, called beatredundancyblues.com for the same reason. I noticed that you said your Personal Statement is two pages long. In my experience, the Personal Statement is usually one paragraph at the top of your CV and should include where you are at now in terms of employment and include what you would like to be doing in a future job. With a brief summary of your personal attributes and can include some important skills highlighted to the job role you are applying for. Although most of these skills will go in the cover letter and be highlighted by previous work experiences in the body of the CV . You are doing the right thing by showing how you match their person specification and how and what you could contribute to their community but this should be in the cover letter, not the personal statement and ideally the cover letter should be one page long. The rest of the matching evidence should be in the two page CV. I hope this helps. You may want to consider self-employment and as for publishing - You could try self-publishing.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry to hear you are having so many problems. I believe in you. Just to let you know that I worked in management for over 7 years and I recruited staff as part of my management roles. I have a blog to help people who are redundant to get back into work <a href="http://www.beatredundancyblues.wordpress.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.beatredundancyblues.wordpress.com</a> and I am launching a website soon, called beatredundancyblues.com for the same reason. I noticed that you said your Personal Statement is two pages long. In my experience, the Personal Statement is usually one paragraph at the top of your CV and should include where you are at now in terms of employment and include what you would like to be doing in a future job. With a brief summary of your personal attributes and can include some important skills highlighted to the job role you are applying for. Although most of these skills will go in the cover letter and be highlighted by previous work experiences in the body of the CV . You are doing the right thing by showing how you match their person specification and how and what you could contribute to their community but this should be in the cover letter, not the personal statement and ideally the cover letter should be one page long. The rest of the matching evidence should be in the two page CV. I hope this helps. You may want to consider self-employment and as for publishing &#8211; You could try self-publishing.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Arrogance&#8230; by Bindu</title>
		<link>http://choccat.wordpress.com/2013/03/07/arrogance/#comment-469</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Bindu]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Mar 2013 14:22:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Just keep on encouraging and motivating your children. Your husband will never be able to come down to their level and give them what they need, it seems. I too grew without getting much encouragement but now I am doing everything to ensure that my kids get it.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just keep on encouraging and motivating your children. Your husband will never be able to come down to their level and give them what they need, it seems. I too grew without getting much encouragement but now I am doing everything to ensure that my kids get it.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Not quite right&#8230; by Searching for the Light</title>
		<link>http://choccat.wordpress.com/2013/03/14/not-quite-right/#comment-467</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Searching for the Light]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Mar 2013 21:23:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thank you for popping by and commenting. :)

I can handle constructive criticism and think the world would be a much better place if we all appreciated the time and effort others put in. Most of the time I think recruiters or editors know exactly why they don&#039;t want you (and apart from the age thing) just don&#039;t say because it is too much like hard work. The thing is they would probably find, if the gave accurate and constructive criticism, they would then get far less applications/submissions than they do now because people would be more in tune with what was required.

I think the a lot of the world is lacking in basic manners but that may be another blog post.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for popping by and commenting. <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I can handle constructive criticism and think the world would be a much better place if we all appreciated the time and effort others put in. Most of the time I think recruiters or editors know exactly why they don&#8217;t want you (and apart from the age thing) just don&#8217;t say because it is too much like hard work. The thing is they would probably find, if the gave accurate and constructive criticism, they would then get far less applications/submissions than they do now because people would be more in tune with what was required.</p>
<p>I think the a lot of the world is lacking in basic manners but that may be another blog post.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Not quite right&#8230; by LadyBlueRose's Thoughts Into Words</title>
		<link>http://choccat.wordpress.com/2013/03/14/not-quite-right/#comment-466</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[LadyBlueRose's Thoughts Into Words]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Mar 2013 16:08:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[this speaks very loudly inside my head
I looked for a job for two years...the line was...we are going in  another direction
ahhh...younger, less experience I have (many, many)rejections in my writings too...*sigh*
I like I am not quite right....I have always been that way....
I did find a job...pays okay and though I don&#039;t see a career out of it (that age thing)
I can pay my bills and just be me....
you put into words what alot of people are saying silently inside their heads
a wonderful &quot;real&quot; post...Thank you
Take Care...
You Matter...
)0(
ladyblue]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>this speaks very loudly inside my head<br />
I looked for a job for two years&#8230;the line was&#8230;we are going in  another direction<br />
ahhh&#8230;younger, less experience I have (many, many)rejections in my writings too&#8230;*sigh*<br />
I like I am not quite right&#8230;.I have always been that way&#8230;.<br />
I did find a job&#8230;pays okay and though I don&#8217;t see a career out of it (that age thing)<br />
I can pay my bills and just be me&#8230;.<br />
you put into words what alot of people are saying silently inside their heads<br />
a wonderful &#8220;real&#8221; post&#8230;Thank you<br />
Take Care&#8230;<br />
You Matter&#8230;<br />
)0(<br />
ladyblue</p>
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		<title>Comment on Arrogance&#8230; by Searching for the Light</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Searching for the Light]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Mar 2013 15:56:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[No, it is not too harsh, and I agree with you. But then I married him knowing full well what he was like. Having children changed me and my attitude to life and has led me places I would never have thought of going, I think our upbringing has a an awful lot to do with who we become and how we deal with life, I am trying to overcome my upbringing and instill confidence and a sense of wonder and gratitude in my children. My husband had a privileged childhood, got everything he wanted in terms of material possessions but, from what he tells me of his childhood, love, affection and praise were in short supply, his confidence/self esteem comes from having to be independent at a very young age in an environment (boarding school) where showing emotion was frowned upon, But where I struggle is the fact that his self confidence allows no room for searching, self improvement or change.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No, it is not too harsh, and I agree with you. But then I married him knowing full well what he was like. Having children changed me and my attitude to life and has led me places I would never have thought of going, I think our upbringing has a an awful lot to do with who we become and how we deal with life, I am trying to overcome my upbringing and instill confidence and a sense of wonder and gratitude in my children. My husband had a privileged childhood, got everything he wanted in terms of material possessions but, from what he tells me of his childhood, love, affection and praise were in short supply, his confidence/self esteem comes from having to be independent at a very young age in an environment (boarding school) where showing emotion was frowned upon, But where I struggle is the fact that his self confidence allows no room for searching, self improvement or change.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Arrogance&#8230; by Searching for the Light</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Searching for the Light]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Mar 2013 15:47:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thank you. Sometimes I like to believe I am right, it is good when others think so too. :)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you. Sometimes I like to believe I am right, it is good when others think so too. <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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